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Let's have the talk

Wed, Sep 15, 21

If you are going through menopause, have found Tabu, and want to talk to your friends about it - we wrote this letter for you. Send it to any one of your friends who you think might really need this conversation. 


We’ve had a million conversations about our back pain, bad knees, and bad dates. I feel like I can tell you anything at this point. But some things are a little harder to talk about. That’s why I’m sending you this note. 

I‘ve been going through menopause for a while now. It’s a huge part of my life these days, and I feel as though this is something we should be able to talk about together. 

Since I’ve been doing so much research about what’s going on with me, I wanted to finally share some of what I’ve learned with you.

I’ve learned how serious, isolating, and common the sexual health side effects of menopause can be. I don’t want to assume anything, but we are around the same age, and I suspect you might be going through some of this too. 

Here’s what I’ve learned so far:

  • Sexual wellness affects our happiness. Self-care means our whole selves. Women who honor and nurture their sexuality later in life report improved overall happiness in their personal and romantic relationships.

Now this gift - I found this recently. Open it in private, and don’t be alarmed. It’s made for women like us, and I have to say it works. This gift is intended to help you prioritize your sexual wellness like I’ve been able to. At the end of the day, shouldn’t this feel as natural and healthy as our skin and exercise routines?

Thank you for hearing me out. Taking care of ourselves shouldn’t be awkward. 

With love, 

Your friend.