A Sexual Revolution at 60-Something
A Sexual Revolution
at 60-Something
How Tabu’s Golden Hour Kit Luxe helped me rediscover intimacy after I lost my partner
"If you want to reverse the atrophy, you have to stimulate your v*gina — by whatever means possible."
A Sexual Revolution at 60-Something
How Tabu’s Golden Hour Kit Luxe helped me rediscover intimacy after I lost my partner
"If you want to reverse the atrophy, you have to stimulate your v*gina — by whatever means possible."
Those were my doctor's exact words. At 64 years old, they changed my life.
When I lost my husband of 34 years, I assumed that chapter of my life was closed forever. Sex had never been particularly enjoyable anyway — often painful, rarely fulfilling, and almost always centered around someone else.
But then came my diagnosis: vaginal atrophy.
The Uncomfortable Truth
For those unfamiliar, vaginal atrophy is the thinning, drying, and inflammation of the vaginal walls due to decreased estrogen levels. It affects most postmenopausal women (among many others), yet we rarely discuss it openly.
The symptoms were unmistakable:
When I finally gathered the courage to speak with my doctor about the pain, her advice caught me completely off guard.
A Prescription I Never Expected
A Prescription
I Never Expected
I must have looked shocked. A medical directive to m*sturbate? At my age? After losing my husband? With no dating prospects on the horizon?
Here I was in my 60s — a woman who had never touched herself like that, never prioritized my own pleasure, and frankly, never thought I needed to.
My doctor knew that hormone therapy wasn’t an option for me due to my medical history (and she told me even if I WAS taking hormones, she’d give me the same advice).
No, this “prescription” was not what I expected at all but I was intrigued. It was straightforward and even though hearing it made me a bit uncomfortable at first, it made sense to me. This was like any other muscle in my body (yes, the vagina is a muscle!). And stimulating muscles is how we keep them in shape.
That's when my doctor mentioned Tabu.
Taking the First Step
Doctor’s orders…
When my Golden Hour Kit Luxe arrived, I almost sent it back unopened. This wasn't me. I didn't do these sorts of things.
But my discomfort was worsening, and my doctor's words kept echoing in my mind.
I started by applying the Crème de la Vie Vulva Moisturizer. First to my hand, to make sure it didn’t irritate my skin. (All clear.) Then I applied it downstairs.
To even my surprise – I started laughing. Why was I so uncomfortable? I moisturize EVERY part of my body. Why would this one particularly dry part be any different?
It felt cool, silky, and refreshing. Like a big gulp of water for my dehydrated tissues.
I applied the vulva moisturizer morning and night as instructed for a couple days before mustering up the courage to move on to the rest of the kit. (If I’m being honest, things were already feeling better down there.)
I took out the Nuri Wand and experimented with the different settings and warming feature (it heats up to 97 degrees F which is quite… nice). I used it just externally with the kit’s Aureum lubricant.
There was no pressure, no expectations. Just me addressing a health concern as recommended by a medical professional.
Then gradually, something unexpected began to happen.
A Surprising Discovery
It became... pleasant. That was a surprise. Sex had never been fun before.
What began as a medical intervention slowly transformed into something else entirely.
For the first time in my life, I began exploring my body without concern for someone else's pleasure or approval. I discovered sensations I didn't know were possible at my age — or any age, for that matter.
Week by week, I noticed improvements:
Beyond Physical Healing
The physical benefits were significant — my symptoms improved dramatically over several months of regular use. But the psychological transformation was even more profound.
Now I know what I want. And how to ask for it.
This journey that began as a response to atrophy evolved into a complete reawakening of my sense of self. When I eventually felt ready to consider dating again, I approached relationships from an entirely different perspective — one where my needs and desires were just as important as my partner's.
I found my voice. I set boundaries. I communicated clearly about what worked for me and what didn't.
You're Never “Too Old” to Start
You're Never
“Too Old” to Start
I never imagined buying something like this. Ever. But Tabu is different from the rest. With their elegant, health-first approach, I began to explore and embrace my sexuality in my 60s — something I never imagined possible.
My story isn't unique. Many women discover or rediscover their sexuality later in life. What makes the difference is having the right guidance, the right tools, and the permission to prioritize your own wellbeing.
Ready to Prioritize Intimacy?
Tabu offers discrete, thoughtfully designed products specifically created for women like me — women navigating the hormonal changes that come with menopause, postpartum, or even illness. Women dealing with atrophy, dryness, low libido, or low body confidence. They don’t make “toys” – they design “tools” to support your intimate health.
These products changed my life, and they could very well change yours.
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