The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)
The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)

The Prim

$195.00
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Patented design

Washable linen

Just the right lift

Color
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The Prim - a pillow for partners.

Wedge pillows are often recommended by pelvic floor physical therapists, sex educators, and GYNs alike to alleviate lower back and hip pain during partnered sex, as well as increase satisfaction by raising the pelvis. But, these pillows are clunky, firm, and often hidden in the back of a closet.

Made with combination memory foam and a custom, washable linen – The Prim leverages a patented design to not only make the pillow more comfortable but also to look like a throw pillow that belongs on your bed.

Dimensions
18in x 16in x 8in, providing a 7in lift

Find additional linen covers here.

The Prim can be used in many positions to make partnered sex more comfortable and enjoyable. Check out this guide we pulled together with some of our favorites.

Care instructions

Pillow case - 100% linen
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on cool or warm gentle cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using a warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

Inner liner - 87% polyester / 13% spandex
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on a cold cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

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Science-Backed

Developed in partnership with clinicians, therapists, and (most importantly) women like you.

Health First

Supported as a safe and natural way to address dryness, atrophy, low libido, and so much more.

Never Crude

And not a toy. This is not your daughter’s sexual wellness brand.

Key Features

The only throw pillow he'll want on the bed...

Dual Density Memory Foam

To transform all the best angles

Soft, Yet Firm

For just the right lift

Washable Linen Cover

To look as good as it feels

Tested And Loved By Clinicians

To support in-the-moment aches and pains

I’ve never felt better about my body. This has been an investment in my health.

Bri, 42

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I got my sex life back without taking hormones. The more you use the Golden Hour Kit, the better sex gets.

Nancy, 61

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I’m now on the same page with my wife and her needs. This kit saved our marriage.

Jim, 55

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Overall rating: 4.654054 / 5 from 185 reviews.

AI Generated Review Summary

The Prim pillow is highly praised for its perfect angle, exceptional quality, and ability to enhance every position. Customers appreciate its support, though opinions vary on the cover's quality. It makes a significant difference in comfort and ease of use.

Summary topics

  • Pillow Angle: 10%
  • Ease and Pleasure: 5%
  • Penetration Difference: 7%
  • Pillow Quality: 38%
  • Position Comfort: 9%

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Review highlights

  • "The pillow is firm and amazing at just the right angle." — Jennifer B.
  • "The angle is perfect and the quality is top notch." — Jason
  • "The pillow also looks very nice." — Andrew K.

Reviews

Worth every penny!

"This pillow has made our sex life so enjoyable. The quality is very high. I was concerned by the price but you can’t put a price tag on your sex life right? Worth it!!! Haven’t had sex without it since we got it. We already had a good sex life but I recommend for more intense pleasure and comfort/support for some positions. I have back problems and the support for my back has made sex much more comfortable. Thanks Prim!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Just Buy It! You'll Thank Me Later!

"I'm pretty cheap, so I was hesitant paying this much for a pillow. When I brought it out on our anniversary my wife was confused as to why I gifted her with a pillow . We are in our sixties, and after using it the first time we both felt happy and thankful. No pain for either of us. Everything worked like it used too when we were younger. Guys, if you are on the fence about buying the Prim pillow, don't be. I guarantee you, it will be the best money you ever spent."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Worth the Investment! Buy this pillow!

"This pillow is a game changer! After a total hysterectomy, at an early age, intercourse became even more uncomfortable for me. I also have dealt with Endometriosis and surgeries to remove it. Using this pillow allowed me to have intercourse without any pain for the first time in years. And it was AHHHMAZING."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

The angle makes all the difference!

"Wow! We weren't sure this would work but we've been struggling to get the angles right for a while. This pillow is firm enough to support either of us at the correct angle. When I need to lay down over the pillow the edges don't dig into my hips. It's been a great addition to our playtime."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Game Changer

"Highly recommend 'The Prim' to spice things up in the bedroom. The cushion itself is comfortable, easy to use in various positions and a welcomed enhancer for both my wife and I."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

The pillow is outstanding. I

"The pillow is outstanding. I keep it on my bed. We’re not using it as a throw pillow as promised it looks beautiful and it works even better."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

"The Pillow Stays"

"I purchased as a surprise to my wife and after trying it for the first time she declared "the pillow stays!" Lucky us. :)"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Male

"Has made a difference in our intimacy connection. Provides a better alignment for intercourse since I am recovering from PD and has allowed the return to different positions. ."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

A bit disappointed

"My husband and I are finding the pillow to be a bit awkward. I think it is kind of large for my frame. It is nicely crafted, but I don’t think we will use it as often as hoped."

— Anonymous Member (3/5)

Would like more details on how I can benefit from using The Prim

"I bought based on glowing reviews, but have found that I would like to have more details about how to take advantage of positions while using the pillow. For the moment, feels overpriced because of lack of support on helpful ideas and suggestions. I’d appreciate more input to make this worth the money. Thanks!"

— Anonymous Member (3/5)

Q&A

The Prim is fantastic and we want to keep it clean. There was an extra cover with a slipknot. What is its function?
Thank you for your question! The extra cover is provided so that you can put the pillow inside it in case you need to temporarily store it away, pack it up for a move, etc.

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