The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)

The Prim

Regular price$195.00
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Patented design

Washable linen

Just the right lift

Color
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The Prim - a pillow for partners.

Wedge pillows are often recommended by pelvic floor physical therapists, sex educators, and GYNs alike to alleviate lower back and hip pain during partnered sex, as well as increase satisfaction by raising the pelvis. But, these pillows are clunky, firm, and often hidden in the back of a closet.

Made with combination memory foam and a custom, washable linen – The Prim leverages a patented design to not only make the pillow more comfortable but also to look like a throw pillow that belongs on your bed.

Dimensions
18in x 16in x 8in, providing a 7in lift

Find additional linen covers here.

The Prim can be used in many positions to make partnered sex more comfortable and enjoyable. Check out this guide we pulled together with some of our favorites.

Care instructions

Pillow case - 100% linen
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on cool or warm gentle cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using a warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

Inner liner - 87% polyester / 13% spandex
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on a cold cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

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Science-Backed

Developed in partnership with clinicians, therapists, and (most importantly) women like you.

Health First

Supported as a safe and natural way to address dryness, atrophy, low libido, and so much more.

Never Crude

And not a toy. This is not your daughter’s sexual wellness brand.

Key Features

The only throw pillow he'll want on the bed...

I’ve never felt better about my body. This has been an investment in my health.

Bri, 42

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I got my sex life back without taking hormones. The more you use the Golden Hour Kit, the better sex gets.

Nancy, 61

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I’m now on the same page with my wife and her needs. This kit saved our marriage.

Jim, 55

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Overall rating: 4.6471863 / 5 from 462 reviews.

AI Generated Review Summary

The Prim pillow is highly praised for its perfect angle, exceptional quality, and ability to enhance every position. Customers appreciate its support, though opinions vary on the cover's quality. It makes a significant difference in comfort and ease of use.

Summary topics

  • Pillow Angle (10%): It was observed by customers that the angle of the pillow is perfect and top-notch.
  • Ease and Pleasure (5%): Customers raved about the product, describing it as easier and pleasurable than previous options.
  • Penetration Difference (7%): Customers raved about how it made a big difference in penetration and how they felt. (100% agreement)
  • Pillow Quality (38%): A substantial number of customers loved the pillow, describing it as perfect, great, and amazing.
  • Position Comfort (9%): Customers loved that the product made every position feel better and was easy to use and provide good support.

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Review highlights

  • "The pillow is firm and amazing at just the right angle." — Jennifer B.
  • "The angle is perfect and the quality is top notch." — Jason
  • "The pillow also looks very nice." — Andrew K.

Reviews

What Took So Long

"I suggested to my girlfriend that I wanted to buy this pillow to help support our bedtime activities. Her response went like, “we can just use a regular pillow”. So I made the executive decision to buy it anyway. All it took was about 1 minute of using the pillow and she was 100% on board! It was also nice to know that she appreciated my effort to keep things exciting"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

BELIEVE THE HYPE

"I absolutely did not believe the hype. But …. Postpartum nothing seemed to feel comfortable. I tried everything from physical therapy to various lubricants and everything in between. This was a bit of a Hail Mary purchase. And wow. Best purchase ever! This is the first time in five years (since having kids) sex has felt great and dare I say even better than before! Not an understatement when I say this pillow has led to the best sex of my life. Radical, life changing, everyone needs one."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Yup.

"Wow, I mean the angle…… it really is the perfect tilt that is just hard to get with pillows. It gets the job done QUICK, whether we like it or not πŸ˜‚ We haven’t played around too much with positions other than missionary yet, but if you’re trying to prioritize your sex life or just mix it up, you won’t regret getting this. Also, the fabric is so soft!! The softest linen I’ve ever felt, honestly. It is all just very high quality."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

BUY THIS PILLOW!

"Wife and I have a great sex life but after seeing this pillow online repeatedly decided to go ahead and buy it. It has been an absolute game changer! We have tried multiple positions with it and love it in each one. If you are considering it, just go for it."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Changed our lives for the better

"My boyfriend called this "life-changing" after the first 2 uses. I waffled on getting this for 2 months due to the price, but absolutely do not regret the purchase. It makes our 7" height difference melt away. We feel so close and my prolapse symptoms no longer are an issue. My knees no longer scream at me. And it's made from a REALLY nice linen that is so soft Will be recommending to my friends and PFPT. I carried 2 large babies and since, certain positions were painful and the angles were never quite right. This pillow fixes it with no adjustments needed. It's magically just perfect. Honestly, thank you for making this product."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Significantly increased comfort

"The pillow significantly increased comfort and pleasure for me and my partner. It’s firm enough but super comfortable. As someone who struggled with pleasure purely from anatomy of my body, this gave the perfect tilt to help reduce any discomfort."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Persistent Hip Pain

"Got this pillow after reading great reviews and seeing professional experts weighing in on how well this changes positionally for pain. Thankfully I don't have pelvic pain, however I HAD persistent hip pains requiring repositioning and evening popping to relief pressure and pain during intercourse. Of course this repositioning and audible pop can dampen the mood. After the first try with this pillow I was amazed at how I didn't have to stop and reposition and I didn't have residual pains afterwards. GAME CHANGER! 10/10 would recommend and added bonus that it can stay on my bed without the tabu. Love love love. Thank you!!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Love it.

"We love the comfort it provides. The angle is perfect. It sits on our bed and looks like an ordinary pillow."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Good First Experience, More Testing Required

"First of all, I want to praise the design quality of the Prim. The washable fabric is soft and understated in the best way, and it truly does blend in with our bed decor. After the first wash, no shrinkage or wrinkly concerns: the cover slips right back on the foam core. As far as the use, our first time was a generally positive experience. I think moreso for the penetrative partner. My wife didn’t dislike the extra lift the Prim provided, but felt it maybe was too intense at that specific moment, for all the variables that can happen with bodies and intimacy. So, our first joint experience wasn’t flawless, but we’re both willing to try again and test different positions and uses! Still, I believe the construction and design of the pillow deserve a full 5 stars."

— Anonymous Member (4/5)

Worth Every Penny!

"You don't know until you know! This little pillow has improved every position on the bed! We've tried our regular pillows, even our memory foam ones to try to find just the right angles but they always fall flat, literally. But the Prim is firm enough top support your hips, and soft enough to be comfortable between the knees. It's just a plus that it happened to perfectly match the color and texture of our current sheets! It lives on the bed, and is one throw pillow that we hesitate to throw before we lay down for bed."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Q&A

The Prim is fantastic and we want to keep it clean. There was an extra cover with a slipknot. What is its function?
Thank you for your question! The extra cover is provided so that you can put the pillow inside it in case you need to temporarily store it away, pack it up for a move, etc.

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