The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)
The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)

The Prim

$195.00
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Patented design

Washable linen

Just the right lift

Color
Due to high demand Prims may take 1 week to ship.
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The Prim - a pillow for partners.

Wedge pillows are often recommended by pelvic floor physical therapists, sex educators, and GYNs alike to alleviate lower back and hip pain during partnered sex, as well as increase satisfaction by raising the pelvis. But, these pillows are clunky, firm, and often hidden in the back of a closet.

Made with combination memory foam and a custom, washable linen – The Prim leverages a patented design to not only make the pillow more comfortable but also to look like a throw pillow that belongs on your bed.

Dimensions
18in x 16in x 8in, providing a 7in lift

Find additional linen covers here.

The Prim can be used in many positions to make partnered sex more comfortable and enjoyable. Check out this guide we pulled together with some of our favorites.

Care instructions

Pillow case - 100% linen
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on cool or warm gentle cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using a warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

Inner liner - 87% polyester / 13% spandex
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on a cold cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

a new

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a new approach to

sexual Wellness

Science-Backed

Developed in partnership with clinicians, therapists, and (most importantly) women like you.

Health First

Supported as a safe and natural way to address dryness, atrophy, low libido, and so much more.

Never Crude

And not a toy. This is not your daughter’s sexual wellness brand.

Key Features

The only throw pillow he'll want on the bed...

Dual Density Memory Foam

To transform all the best angles

Soft, Yet Firm

For just the right lift

Washable Linen Cover

To look as good as it feels

Tested And Loved By Clinicians

To support in-the-moment aches and pains

I’ve never felt better about my body. This has been an investment in my health.

Bri, 42

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I got my sex life back without taking hormones. The more you use the Golden Hour Kit, the better sex gets.

Nancy, 61

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I’m now on the same page with my wife and her needs. This kit saved our marriage.

Jim, 55

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Overall rating: 4.6346154 / 5 from 416 reviews.

AI Generated Review Summary

The Prim pillow is highly praised for its perfect angle, exceptional quality, and ability to enhance every position. Customers appreciate its support, though opinions vary on the cover's quality. It makes a significant difference in comfort and ease of use.

Summary topics

  • Pillow Angle (10%): It was observed by customers that the angle of the pillow is perfect and top-notch.
  • Ease and Pleasure (5%): Customers raved about the product, describing it as easier and pleasurable than previous options.
  • Penetration Difference (7%): Customers raved about how it made a big difference in penetration and how they felt. (100% agreement)
  • Pillow Quality (38%): A substantial number of customers loved the pillow, describing it as perfect, great, and amazing.
  • Position Comfort (9%): Customers loved that the product made every position feel better and was easy to use and provide good support.

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Review highlights

  • "The pillow is firm and amazing at just the right angle." — Jennifer B.
  • "The angle is perfect and the quality is top notch." — Jason
  • "The pillow also looks very nice." — Andrew K.

Reviews

Worth Every Penny!

"You don't know until you know! This little pillow has improved every position on the bed! We've tried our regular pillows, even our memory foam ones to try to find just the right angles but they always fall flat, literally. But the Prim is firm enough top support your hips, and soft enough to be comfortable between the knees. It's just a plus that it happened to perfectly match the color and texture of our current sheets! It lives on the bed, and is one throw pillow that we hesitate to throw before we lay down for bed."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Magical !

"This pillow is so good I sent the link to my six couple friends after the first use ! It’s a game changer ! First day we used it our love making session lasted one hour and 30 minutes - at 55 this is not the normal !! It positions your hips in a way that make less strain on both partners plus a much deeper penetration,"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Best Bedroom Purchase

"My partner and I have been using our Tabu Prim for around 2 weeks now and we couldn't be happier. The elevation provides increased comfort and better penetration which we are both enjoying immensely. Plus it's both stylish and discreet enough that it remains on the bed among the other decorative pillows."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Just ok.

"Shipping and delivery was super fast. The Prim came well packaged. I liked the linen material and color. The linen feels nice and cool. The foam is just right in firmness and softness. The angle isn't too high. We like the simplistic design on the pillow allowing it to look like a decorative pillow. It's main function for me is for support and to alleviate my back pain. We feel that the price point is a little too high."

— Anonymous Member (3/5)

Above and beyond. . . .

"We have a great sex life to begin with. Now that we have gotten a bit more mature ( my wife gave this to me for my 66th birthday), The Prim makes any position comfortable and has given us access to places previously beyond our reach. My wife and I are ecstatic! Thank you for designing a great product."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Nice firm and fun

"The sheer existance of this sparks conversation and action. It is a discreet shape and really helps get things comfortable. Is it worth it, yes, my wife made a pillow case for it. It is very firm, more than you would expect, but very comfortable. Get one, it is worth every cent"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

A little more hype than function

"I bought this to replace the pillows my girlfriend and I have been using, hoping for something less obvious than the wedge but just as functional. What the Primm is, is essentially an angled, slightly firmer memory foam pillow that looks benign enough to leave on the bed when not in use. It is what’s advertised, a chic looking, wedge shaped, firm pillow. I’m just not entirely sure it justifies the hefty price tag."

— Anonymous Member (3/5)

The Ads Don’t Lie, We Love it

"We’ve used the Prim 3 times since it arrived a few days ago and it is excellent! The elevation of my wife’s hips made an insane difference that we both noticed and really enjoyed. She also noted the way she could relax her upper body during rear entry sex. Looking forward to many more satisfying sessions!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Better than using a bed pillow

"This pillow is so much better than a bed pillow. The bed pillows get flat and sometimes moves. We have been participating in "30 days of sex" and this pillow came during week two. We definitely notice a significant difference under either of us. It takes a little while to get onto the pillow, but it is wonderful to use it! It doesn't move under us. My husband noticed the angle, and he said it feels better than using the flat mattress or pillows that go flat. We've been using bed pillows for a couple of years so he really noticed the difference with this one."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Buy it, you will NOT regret it!!!

"Totally elevated my sex life! Just used it for the first time last night and my husband told me we are going to take it with us when we travel! After long bout with perimenopause, cancer, and a total hysterectomy I was afraid our sex life had seen it's better days. But now. . . We are back in action baby!!! I can't thank you enough. My only regret is I didn't know about it sooner. THANK YOU!!!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Q&A

The Prim is fantastic and we want to keep it clean. There was an extra cover with a slipknot. What is its function?
Thank you for your question! The extra cover is provided so that you can put the pillow inside it in case you need to temporarily store it away, pack it up for a move, etc.

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