The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)
The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)

The Prim

$195.00
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Patented design

Washable linen

Just the right lift

Color
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The Prim - a pillow for partners.

Wedge pillows are often recommended by pelvic floor physical therapists, sex educators, and GYNs alike to alleviate lower back and hip pain during partnered sex, as well as increase satisfaction by raising the pelvis. But, these pillows are clunky, firm, and often hidden in the back of a closet.

Made with combination memory foam and a custom, washable linen – The Prim leverages a patented design to not only make the pillow more comfortable but also to look like a throw pillow that belongs on your bed.

Dimensions
18in x 16in x 8in, providing a 7in lift

Find additional linen covers here.

The Prim can be used in many positions to make partnered sex more comfortable and enjoyable. Check out this guide we pulled together with some of our favorites.

Care instructions

Pillow case - 100% linen
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on cool or warm gentle cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using a warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

Inner liner - 87% polyester / 13% spandex
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on a cold cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

a new

approach to

sexual Wellness

a new approach to

sexual Wellness

Science-Backed

Developed in partnership with clinicians, therapists, and (most importantly) women like you.

Health First

Supported as a safe and natural way to address dryness, atrophy, low libido, and so much more.

Never Crude

And not a toy. This is not your daughter’s sexual wellness brand.

Key Features

The only throw pillow he'll want on the bed...

Dual Density Memory Foam

To transform all the best angles

Soft, Yet Firm

For just the right lift

Washable Linen Cover

To look as good as it feels

Tested And Loved By Clinicians

To support in-the-moment aches and pains

I’ve never felt better about my body. This has been an investment in my health.

Bri, 42

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I got my sex life back without taking hormones. The more you use the Golden Hour Kit, the better sex gets.

Nancy, 61

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I’m now on the same page with my wife and her needs. This kit saved our marriage.

Jim, 55

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Overall rating: 4.650289 / 5 from 346 reviews.

AI Generated Review Summary

The Prim pillow is highly praised for its perfect angle, exceptional quality, and ability to enhance every position. Customers appreciate its support, though opinions vary on the cover's quality. It makes a significant difference in comfort and ease of use.

Summary topics

  • Pillow Angle (10%): It was observed by customers that the angle of the pillow is perfect and top-notch.
  • Ease and Pleasure (5%): Customers raved about the product, describing it as easier and pleasurable than previous options.
  • Penetration Difference (7%): Customers raved about how it made a big difference in penetration and how they felt. (100% agreement)
  • Pillow Quality (38%): A substantial number of customers loved the pillow, describing it as perfect, great, and amazing.
  • Position Comfort (9%): Customers loved that the product made every position feel better and was easy to use and provide good support.

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Review highlights

  • "The pillow is firm and amazing at just the right angle." — Jennifer B.
  • "The angle is perfect and the quality is top notch." — Jason
  • "The pillow also looks very nice." — Andrew K.

Reviews

Very Worth the Price!

"The Prim pillow is fantastic! The first time we used it, it was a bit comical trying to get up on it (on my back), but when I did, my husband gushed, "Oh, god! The view is amazing!". It has been a great addition to our intimacy! The price was intimidating - we don't generally spend that much on anything. But, we've only owned it for a couple of weeks and it has already been more than worth it! I highly recommend The Prim!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Fantastic addition to my marriage

"This pillow is great! We don't use it all of the time, but it really improves the angle of penetration while facing each other, and is a fantastic addition to our sex life. Definitely recommend if you're having issues or needing a more comfortable option for sex positions."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Worth Every Penny

"Best investment made. I used this pillow for side sleeping between my knees. I have been suffering with hip pain. After one night of use my hips were less painful. It gave me great alignment for side sleeping, and I slept more soundly. We have also used it for intimacy and we love it! It is discrete and you’re able to display it on the bed."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Helpful

"Helpful product. As I get older, the hips and back don’t work like they used to. The Prim helps stop those mood killers when you say “ouch” or I can’t do that position. Sophisticated design keeps it handy and the momentum isn’t delayed with trying to get something out of a closet because it had to be hidden from sight."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Worth every penny

"My wife loves the Prim, the tilt it gives and the firmness just hit the spot for her. It's a lower angle than most wedges and is the perfect height for us. That it looks like a nice throw pillow means it's always on hand instead of tucked away. The removable and washable cover is great. It would be nice if a second cover came with for the price (we'd use it while one was in the wash), but honestly given how much it's improved our lives I'll happily pick up a spare separately."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Excellent Investment

"I purchased The Prim pillow after hearing about the product on a podcast. My wife and I have found this pillow to be a great investment. It's high quality - made of a dense foam that helps maintain and enhance the angle of intercourse. We also appreciate that it is discrete in appearance, and can be used as a throw pillow on our bed."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

"Works" as 'expected. ' Pricey? Yes!

""Works" as 'expected. ' Pricey? Yes! Worth it? I think so, because "makeshift versions of this" fall short - THIS PILLOW DOES NOT! Perfect size, doesn't 'flatten,' Looks nice on the bed and remains convenient. Best of all, . . . my husband appreciates how it 'helps elevate me off the bed' where he can do the thing I like most ;-) and then it makes other positions plain ol' awesome. Just buy it - this is one pricey splurge you will smirk n' smile about."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Skeptic to Believer

"I bought this being a bit skeptical it would truly make a difference. My husband is tall and angles have always been a sore spot for us, literally and figuratively; someone was always hurting for one reason or another. This pillow, wow, it has really made every position possible. He’s not squatting or contorting to get to me, I’m not lifting on my own or trying to brace myself on my arms, etc. it’s comfortable, it lifts, it allows for us to be so much more comfortable which leads us to being able to really be so much more intimate and in the moment. I love this pillow."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Definitely worth it!!

"This pillow is absolutely amazing! First, I LOVE that it can stay right on my bed. It blends right in to all the other decorative pillows and you wouldn’t suspect a thing! And second, the angles it provides are perfect, my husband especially loves it! Definitely worth the price!!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

When my wife showed me

"When my wife showed me the prim, I thought look another really expensive pillow but I went along with it. We never good achieve certain positions due to other issues and I’ve personally wanted to do those positions forever. This pillow actually did the job. I was shocked how will it handled the job and helped my wife and I explore more."

— Anonymous Member (4/5)

Q&A

The Prim is fantastic and we want to keep it clean. There was an extra cover with a slipknot. What is its function?
Thank you for your question! The extra cover is provided so that you can put the pillow inside it in case you need to temporarily store it away, pack it up for a move, etc.

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