The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)
The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
Image showing the washable linen cover fabric over the polyester inner liner fabric of the Prim pillow covers.
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)

The Prim

$195.00
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Patented design

Washable linen

Just the right lift

Color
Due to high demand Prims may take 1 week to ship.
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The Prim - a pillow for partners.

Wedge pillows are often recommended by pelvic floor physical therapists, sex educators, and GYNs alike to alleviate lower back and hip pain during partnered sex, as well as increase satisfaction by raising the pelvis. But, these pillows are clunky, firm, and often hidden in the back of a closet.

Made with combination memory foam and a custom, washable linen – The Prim leverages a patented design to not only make the pillow more comfortable but also to look like a throw pillow that belongs on your bed.

Dimensions
18in x 16in x 8in, providing a 7in lift

Find additional linen covers here.

The Prim can be used in many positions to make partnered sex more comfortable and enjoyable. Check out this guide we pulled together with some of our favorites.

Care instructions

Pillow case - 100% linen
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on cool or warm gentle cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using a warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

Inner liner - 87% polyester / 13% spandex
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on a cold cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

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sexual Wellness

a new approach to

sexual Wellness

Science-Backed

Developed in partnership with clinicians, therapists, and (most importantly) women like you.

Health First

Supported as a safe and natural way to address dryness, atrophy, low libido, and so much more.

Never Crude

And not a toy. This is not your daughter’s sexual wellness brand.

Key Features

The only throw pillow he'll want on the bed...

Dual Density Memory Foam

To transform all the best angles

Soft, Yet Firm

For just the right lift

Washable Linen Cover

To look as good as it feels

Tested And Loved By Clinicians

To support in-the-moment aches and pains

I’ve never felt better about my body. This has been an investment in my health.

Bri, 42

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I got my sex life back without taking hormones. The more you use the Golden Hour Kit, the better sex gets.

Nancy, 61

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I’m now on the same page with my wife and her needs. This kit saved our marriage.

Jim, 55

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Overall rating: 4.635955 / 5 from 445 reviews.

AI Generated Review Summary

The Prim pillow is highly praised for its perfect angle, exceptional quality, and ability to enhance every position. Customers appreciate its support, though opinions vary on the cover's quality. It makes a significant difference in comfort and ease of use.

Summary topics

  • Pillow Angle (10%): It was observed by customers that the angle of the pillow is perfect and top-notch.
  • Ease and Pleasure (5%): Customers raved about the product, describing it as easier and pleasurable than previous options.
  • Penetration Difference (7%): Customers raved about how it made a big difference in penetration and how they felt. (100% agreement)
  • Pillow Quality (38%): A substantial number of customers loved the pillow, describing it as perfect, great, and amazing.
  • Position Comfort (9%): Customers loved that the product made every position feel better and was easy to use and provide good support.

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Review highlights

  • "The pillow is firm and amazing at just the right angle." — Jennifer B.
  • "The angle is perfect and the quality is top notch." — Jason
  • "The pillow also looks very nice." — Andrew K.

Reviews

Good First Experience, More Testing Required

"First of all, I want to praise the design quality of the Prim. The washable fabric is soft and understated in the best way, and it truly does blend in with our bed decor. After the first wash, no shrinkage or wrinkly concerns: the cover slips right back on the foam core. As far as the use, our first time was a generally positive experience. I think moreso for the penetrative partner. My wife didn’t dislike the extra lift the Prim provided, but felt it maybe was too intense at that specific moment, for all the variables that can happen with bodies and intimacy. So, our first joint experience wasn’t flawless, but we’re both willing to try again and test different positions and uses! Still, I believe the construction and design of the pillow deserve a full 5 stars."

— Anonymous Member (4/5)

Yes. Yes. Yes

"Better than expected! My husband was super skeptical, but I wanted to try The Prim anyway. It arrived and we immediately tried it-- he said it was worth EVERY PENNY-- and my husband does not like to spend money. πŸ€ͺ Prim holds up better than any pillow we've tried, gave good support and the angle was juuuuuust right. We tried a few positions already and I was SHOCKED by how much deeper things could be. πŸ˜… Just buy it. Plan to try it immediately and be ready for O. M. G that felt like never before. πŸ˜‰"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Magical !

"This pillow is so good I sent the link to my six couple friends after the first use ! It’s a game changer ! First day we used it our love making session lasted one hour and 30 minutes - at 55 this is not the normal !! It positions your hips in a way that make less strain on both partners plus a much deeper penetration,"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

1st Time Was Great

"We were using a couch cushion πŸ˜„ because it was more firm than a regular pillow which did nothing. But that cushion was so big, bulky, and uncomfortable. I was on the fence about purchasing the Prim because it's so expensive, but it didn't disappoint. It was very comfortable for me. Didn't even feel like I was laying on anything, but still got the pelvic tilt. Afterwards, my boyfriend said he wanted to try a different position with it, but he never made it that far πŸ˜‚ I love the travel bag it comes with. If that's what it's for. We will be taking it everywhere we go. Can't wait to try it tonight for the second time. Love."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Thoughtful design!

"Just what we were looking for. No one else would think it is anything besides a throw pillow or side sleeping pillow. Yet the density is perfect and shape and size make staying connected so much fun. Lots of options for positioning and changing things up during intimacy."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Simply Awesome

"I confess to being a bit skeptical about purchasing the Prim. It seemed like a lot of money for a pillow. However, it has GREATLY enhanced our bedroom experience. Playfulness and pleasure have multiplied for my partner, and I couldn't be more pleased."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Just ok.

"Shipping and delivery was super fast. The Prim came well packaged. I liked the linen material and color. The linen feels nice and cool. The foam is just right in firmness and softness. The angle isn't too high. We like the simplistic design on the pillow allowing it to look like a decorative pillow. It's main function for me is for support and to alleviate my back pain. We feel that the price point is a little too high."

— Anonymous Member (3/5)

Loving it! So worth it!

"Surprised at the quality, used it first day we received it and loving it! People question the price but it’s worth every penny. Don’t put a price on something that can enhance your relationship with your partner."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Q&A

The Prim is fantastic and we want to keep it clean. There was an extra cover with a slipknot. What is its function?
Thank you for your question! The extra cover is provided so that you can put the pillow inside it in case you need to temporarily store it away, pack it up for a move, etc.

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