The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)
The Natural Prim (light gray)
A woman laying on the Prim to elevate her pelvic area
The Prim on a bed with other throw pillows – demonstrating how natural it looks on a bed
A woman laying on the Prim
A woman lying on the Prim in black and white
A charcoal Prim (dark gray)

The Prim

$195.00
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Patented design

Washable linen

Just the right lift

Color
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The Prim - a pillow for partners.

Wedge pillows are often recommended by pelvic floor physical therapists, sex educators, and GYNs alike to alleviate lower back and hip pain during partnered sex, as well as increase satisfaction by raising the pelvis. But, these pillows are clunky, firm, and often hidden in the back of a closet.

Made with combination memory foam and a custom, washable linen – The Prim leverages a patented design to not only make the pillow more comfortable but also to look like a throw pillow that belongs on your bed.

Dimensions
18in x 16in x 8in, providing a 7in lift

Find additional linen covers here.

The Prim can be used in many positions to make partnered sex more comfortable and enjoyable. Check out this guide we pulled together with some of our favorites.

Care instructions

Pillow case - 100% linen
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on cool or warm gentle cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using a warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

Inner liner - 87% polyester / 13% spandex
Hand-wash or machine-wash
For machine washing, here are a few tips:

  • Wash with like colors on a cold cycle
  • Do not bleach
  • Hang dry or tumble dry low
  • Iron using warm setting or steam only
  • Do not dry clean

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a new approach to

sexual Wellness

Science-Backed

Developed in partnership with clinicians, therapists, and (most importantly) women like you.

Health First

Supported as a safe and natural way to address dryness, atrophy, low libido, and so much more.

Never Crude

And not a toy. This is not your daughter’s sexual wellness brand.

Key Features

The only throw pillow he'll want on the bed...

Dual Density Memory Foam

To transform all the best angles

Soft, Yet Firm

For just the right lift

Washable Linen Cover

To look as good as it feels

Tested And Loved By Clinicians

To support in-the-moment aches and pains

I’ve never felt better about my body. This has been an investment in my health.

Bri, 42

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I got my sex life back without taking hormones. The more you use the Golden Hour Kit, the better sex gets.

Nancy, 61

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I’m now on the same page with my wife and her needs. This kit saved our marriage.

Jim, 55

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Overall rating: 4.655629 / 5 from 151 reviews.

AI Generated Review Summary

The Prim pillow is highly praised for its perfect angle, exceptional quality, and ability to enhance every position. Customers appreciate its support, though opinions vary on the cover's quality. It makes a significant difference in comfort and ease of use.

Summary topics

  • Pillow Angle: 10%
  • Ease and Pleasure: 5%
  • Penetration Difference: 7%
  • Pillow Quality: 38%
  • Position Comfort: 9%

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Review highlights

  • "The pillow is firm and amazing at just the right angle." — Jennifer B.
  • "The angle is perfect and the quality is top notch." — Jason
  • "The pillow also looks very nice." — Andrew K.

Reviews

"O" so good!

"The Prim has been a well received addition to our bedroom and intimate time. The quality is simply superb. The pillow itself is plush, but sturdy. The cover is durable, but soft. It is just the right size for either keeping on the bed as a decorative pillow or storing close by. The design is perfection and allows for hitting all the right angles. Can't recommend enough!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Pillow is great!

"Tabu Pillow has been great so far. We have used it in multiple positions for almost a month now. The pillow is nice and firm to hold our weight and comfortable. My husband is 6’1 and I am 5’3 and is perfect for us. It gave us an extra lift in all the right places. I saw in other reviews this didn’t work for really short couples."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Better than a regular pillow

"The Prim has been amazing. It’s a better angle and size compared to a regular bed pillow, my hips don’t feel as tight and the orgasms feel easier. Plus it looks great on the bed. Wish it came in some other colors though."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Additive to the experience

"We used to use regular bed pillows that were too soft and would compress. Using this pillow allows consistent angles that have resulted in increased satisfaction. The wife says it has made what was already working great even better. What I see confirms that."

— Anonymous Member (4/5)

Amazing!

"I really didn’t think a pillow would make that much of a difference in sex, but this pillow is amazing! You get this angle that deepens penetration and hits all the right spots. All the ways we’ve tried it has been great. Totally worth the money."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Great product

"This pillow is amazing! It has really ramped up our sex and is so fun and comfortable to use. My girlfriend was skeptical when I gave it to her for her birthday but has quickly become a fan!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Instant Upgrade

"Instant upgrade! Our sex was good/very good before, but this took it to a whole new level and really helped with my wife's back issues."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Thick, heavy and not sexy

"My wife hated it. Heavy and thick and not comfortable or sexy in the least. Takes real gymnastics to get comfortable and makes spontaneity impossible. Made for a seriously awkward night."

— Anonymous Member (1/5)

Game changer

"5 stars yall… makes things so much more comfortable and a deeper/easier access for all those good spots for us both."

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

this changes everything

"Logic would tell you that there is nothing this pillow can do that any other pillow you own can't do as well. But that assumption is dead wrong. Maybe it's the shape, or the fact that it's dense enough not to "sink" or give in. Or both. But I can say it has been transformative. My wife and I have an active sex life. I'm 50, and she's 48. And she's always complained that sometimes I go too deep when entering her from behind, such that it causes pain. But with the Prim, that's a thing of the past. More than that, the missionary position on this pillow is life-altering. We are both experiencing sensations that we've never felt before. The look on her face when I enter her is pure ecstasy. I'm touching her in places that have never been stimulated before. It's incredible. We haven't even tried the pillow with me on my back and her on top because the other positions are so over-the-top awesome that we aren't interested in exploring anything new!"

— Anonymous Member (5/5)

Q&A

The Prim is fantastic and we want to keep it clean. There was an extra cover with a slipknot. What is its function?
Thank you for your question! The extra cover is provided so that you can put the pillow inside it in case you need to temporarily store it away, pack it up for a move, etc.

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